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The words that keep me going!!

Do not look back and grieve at the past, for it has gone, do not be troubled about the future because it has not yet come, live in the present, make it beautiful and it will be worth remembering...

"AUT VIAM INVENIAM AUT FACIAM"
if there is a will there is always a way...

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

A perfect therapy for loneliness. Shopping.


I just had my late lunch at tesco food court. Just realize how pathetic and lonely i have become since i choose to be self employed. I'm lack of companionship. How would i survive living alone, i'm so talkative i wish the chairs n table could communicate with me. Or better still, I wish i could date somebody right now. :( 'sorry i'm just having my silly lonely moment, i'll be ok after shopping later' -boredusedtobenottygurl-

Mee goreng basah rm5


Mee goreng yg paling cekik darah sebab dia charge telur mata yg dah siap goreng smalam rm1. Kat Food Court Tesco penang. Nasib baik sedap.

Sunday, April 10, 2011

your love relationship and birth order, make u thinking.. no wonder things are so haywired!!

well anyway i knew this all along.. i am the dominator.. i love to take charge.. and i hate people telling me what to do because i know what to do.. :).. this has somehing to do with me being the eldest child and the eldest maternal grandchild.. hubby being the middle.. according to the article.. he needs attention .. well sure he does..

i linked the page so that you could enjoy reading and start analyzing your own relationship.. cheers!!!

http://yahoo.match.com/y/article.aspx?articleid=7652&TrackingID=526103&BannerID=744515

Friday, April 8, 2011

because they said so... we have to abide? who said so?

Nathalie Shobana you have a very good point...

this is what she wrote in the sun

The rabbit hole of bad decisions

Morpheus: This is your last chance. After this, there is no turning back. You take the blue pill – the story ends; you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill – you stay in Wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes.
THE Matrix was a movie that triggered a generation to question decisions. The red pill-blue pill monologue became so popular everyone seemed to be quoting it. Instead of the question being will Neo take the red pill or choose the blue pill. It became a question of what we would do and how we would make decisions.

We make decisions everyday, from whether we’ll get out of bed, what we’ll eat, or how we’ll spend the weekend to more weighted decisions about our future, finances and sometimes even important medical decisions. Then there are the more one-off decisions that is more collective which allows us to be a little apathetic when making them, decisions like voting. It’s easy to feel that – at the end of the day, our vote only goes so far. After all, our opinions aren’t taken too seriously especially in local politics. The people voted in, end up handing over their positions, die or jump ship. So why bother right, just tick any box, or better still why waste time. Besides, you’re not consulted when decisions have been made and if you were to disagree with unwise decisions, it doesn’t matter, the decision has already been made for you. Quite like how censorship works on television.

As a nation, candidates fielded lack quality and have made some pretty questionable decisions but keep at it just because a decision was made and changing their minds might be deemed weak. The people only find out once it’s too late. There are multiple bad decisions that were made and stuck to, just because some big shot said so. It doesn’t matter if it was a bad decision; what happens is the "because I said so" mentality kicks in once people are elected. The Port Klang scandal is one such bad decision after another and now that the whistle has been blown, investigations are moving slightly faster than turtle speed.

We don’t learn from our mistakes we just continue making bad decisions like allowing the MACC to continue when there are grave issues surrounding the manner in which it conducts investigations. How many people have to die for change to happen?

What about the proposed nuclear plants. For a country that can’t ensure bridges are built properly or that the ceiling in Parliament doesn’t leak, or that a stadium won’t collapse, how capable are we to handle not one but two nuclear plants? As the rest of the world who have a better track record with implementing proper procedures are rethinking their nuclear energy plants, we’re pressing on – why? All because someone with a lot of power says so and has forgotten that we even managed to lose two fighter jet engines. What’s to ensure the nuclear plants are safe from theft? Sometimes I wonder if our politicians are bored and need more of a rabbit hole experience.

The rare earth plant being built in Pahang comes with the risk of radioactive pollution is another such case. Yes RM700 million is a great deal of money but at what cost and who’s cost? All because someone has made the decision, and we have to go ahead with it because someone chose the red pill and we got the blue one.

We have politicians accused of scandals who insist on staying in power instead of picking other candidates. If the goal is for a better country, a better future, then decisions of who to field has to be based on the principle of higher authority.

If we are the God-fearing nation we keep saying we are, perhaps our decisions should be based on the principle of pleasing God. Maybe then we might start making the right decisions.

quoting from the sun POINTE 8th April 2011 by Nathalie Shobana Ambrose

P/S:
One Malay proverbs says this "ukur baju di badan sendiri" (do things only if we really are sure of doing;well of course i did not translate it literally it would sound awkward isn't it?? "to measure your own clothes on your own body) or the most correct proverb is.. "kalau kail panjang sejengkal jgn diduga lautan dalam" literal translation - if your fishing rod is only using an inch bait, dont ever think of fishing in deep ocean" this one, kind of makes sense though...

i wonder when those big headed "i said so" will eventually give up and do something else, less threatening and less abusing the rakyat's money..

some views that really make me thinking

I copied this from the sun.. because i think it is so precious i dont want to loose it.. Puan Halimah, i really love what you wrote in the Sun today.. i do believe in a harmonious family institution.. against all odds..

2 women 2 be emulated

MY heart bleeds to see a mother and her daughter standing up to the onslaught levelled at their husband/ father. If anything, Datin Seri Dr Wan Azizah and Nurul Izzah are to be
admired for their steadfastness in defending Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim against allegations of being the protagonist in a sex video.
Although their stance has a lot to do with defending their own political careers and the credibility of the Parti Keadilan leadership, it nevertheless demonstrates two admirable attributes – loyalty and consistency in their family values.
Observing the calibre of Malaysian politicians and the oftentimes bad language and incoherent rhetoric they spew, one wonders what is it in the nation’s education system that breeds semi-literates. Looking at the growing dissent among the major political parties and the desperate attempts to discredit one another, one asks where is the decency and integrity among the people chosen by the electorate to represent them. Indeed, what values and priorities do the people uphold when they vote their favourite candidates into power?
To hound one male politician for allegedly being caught on video with his pants down is hypocrisy at the highest level. This should not be the issue here as we are well aware that many others have succumbed to adultery and fornication which are age-old vices across the world. In the Malaysian case, the man having illicit sex was stupid enough to allow the
accomplice or pimp into the same room. This only serves to show either his complete lack of self-respect or his incurable sex addiction.
More than the personal flaws, it shows a man flaunting his sexual misconduct in the face of a nation struggling to uphold its integrity. What has happened to the religious and moral
guidance provided by the community and spiritual leaders, and by parents and elders in the family?
The two gallant women are to be emulated for their true grit and courage. They reflect a world where women are demonstrating real strength of character as men compromise theirs in the bid for power at all levels of society.
Halimah Mohd Said
Kuala Lumpur

P/S: cheers to your writing ma'am!!