if you are feeling miserable lately... pls READ this

i was reading

"HOW TO MAKE ANYONE LIKE YOU" by Leil Lowndes, well it is about 300 pages, telling us what to do to make anyone like you.. funny eh.. :)

one of the topic disccued in that book is, how to make you happy in order to make anyone like you.. because nobody likes SAD and pathetic people (unless they are a true friend - that leave them with no choice... )

so i requoted what i've read.. and try to summarized it.. i think this one is quite GOOD... if you are familiar with NLP (neurolinguistic programe) you will come across that "negative energy will crate a negative vibes that will attract negative things into your life" its bad right? so in order to make you happy is to shoo away the negative element.. one of the proven ways is:

list 10 people who are closest to you.. and put this beside their names say:
boyfriend (CL)
best friend A (CN) b
est friend B (CS)
mom (CA)
dad (CB)

CL - criticize a lot
CN - criticize neveri
CS - criticise seldom
CA - criticize always
CB - criticize beneficially

if you want to be happy and full of positive energy, ERASE the one with CL and CA (even though its ur mom) from your life.. if its mom (you just cannot avoid mom!!).. just talk to her only when necessary, and the boyfriend.. well LEAVE HIM!

then again.. who needs people who critocize us all the time.. the will only bring ourr morale down, offend us, crash our ego and demotivate us.. WHO NEEDED PEOPLE LIKE THAT IN OUR LIFE? but less that we know.. they ARE actually hanging around us and we are keep crashing our heads to find out why we are so  unhappy and unsuccessful.. u get it now?

tips on buying shoes again!!! from a genuine shoe addict!

i went to the Queensbay Mall last night to get a new pair of black sexy strappy 5" ALDO killer heels that is suppose to be on sale.. i was there last week, i already spent a few hundreds on 2 pair of heels.. but i did not buy the black one.. i bought some nude color pencil heels and a wedges instead.. they have my size in black too.. i was dilly dally and i decided not to buy yet because i fear that mom would be furious when i got home with the shoes!!

but UNFORTUNATELY.. the black sexy strappy 5" killer heels were sold!!!! i really REGRETTED not getting it together with my other ALDOs.. (actually i already bought 5 shoes last month.. but this one was really a bargain!!!) fellas.. if u saw a shoe that cost RM500 and on sale at 70%, and they have your size, just grab it!! don't think too much!! but this rule doesn't apply in buying handbangs tho!! u can always wait till it come down to 70%.. because hand bags doesnt comes in sizes!! see the different?

ohh and again make sure you double check the sizes when you reach the cashier counter.. women have  this weird attitude where they dont wear the shoes instantly like men does.. when you actually open the box 2 months later (finally) for a function or when you are ready to wear it (because you suddenly remembered you still have a new shoe in a box sitting under your bed) the last thing you want is to find out that the shoes are different in sizes.. well honey you bought it on sale!!! no turning back!! it was 2 months ago!! and it cost you a cool few hundreds bucks.. and the last thing you want is to cry out blood!!