favouritism? or simply mismanaged?

it has been 2 weeks since my son, Adrian played football for his school (he is still in kindy actually. as a mom, i could never be prouder. the notice came to us parents a week before the game day. his teachers were so dedicated, and he kids practiced everyday, without fail sun or rain. my son ended up having fever on the 4th day of practice, and it was expected. they were pushing too hard i guess..

my family was very excited, my dad made an effort to be with them at the field everyday to be a voluntary coach apart from other parents. my brother boughtt adrian a pair of football boots, and the teachers we so excited telling me about the kids getting their jersey...

adrian got a t-shirt, plain white tee with a big no 14 printed ot the back, with a black short. and that's about it. but he was very happy to show off that t-shirt that (might only cost RM5) to everybody in the house..

adrian was so disciplined, he told me that his teacher wanted them to put on a long soccer socks, and i managed to get him a pair. he went to bed early the night before the game.. and i was busy preparing everything from food, to clothes to eveything that i could think of, though my previous experince, i could anticipate that it would be a very hot day and very chaotic with so many people around. Since my dearest significant other a.k.a HUBBY unable to make it to the game, my brother "Angah" volunteered to came with us for moral support.. (and some techy things) how could i ever thanked him..

we went to the place, located at the other side of penang island.. a very long drive there... reached there, met adrians friends and teachers.. and to my surprise, i saw kids wearing a very sriking jersey, (yeah like the one we saw in world cup).. and i thought they were invited from clubs.. special trained soccer kids, ironically, to my dismay, they were just little kindy kids, just like my Adrian.. and where the hell they got that striking jersey??? finally adrian teacher told me the actual budget for a jeysey is RM28 per pair.. well that sounded reasonable if my son got what the other kids were wearing.. but that was far from happening..

According to the teachers, the kids that wearing better jerseys are all from the mainland (Seberang Perai Utara, Seberang Perai Tengah and Seberang Perai Selatan), and less priviledge kids were from the Island (Timur Laut and Barat Daya District)

Penang only have 5 Districs and the total of school participating is 29, and My son's team could end up at 6th place... not bad at all huh!!

Well, i dont think that kids would care less about whether or not the jersey were striking, what they did know, they wanted to play... if i were in their shoes, i had already lose morally... being judgemental over the stupid jersey.. i think it is wise for us to at least learn from them..

but that is not the rason, what i wanted to point out is that, what is wrong with the management? why is there double standards? the mismanagement is so obvious that i actually wanted to forward this to the ministers, but will they have time to entertain me?? QUESTION???

Ok one more, you must always congratulate ur kids on whatever that they achieved, be it in academic, sports or music.. whatever,.. always hugs them and say.. good work and i love you, because there is a case with somebody close to me that his parents never acknowledge any of his achievements, even he had represented Malaysia, and he ended up feeling outkast.. it sure do more harm than good when ur kid felt that way..so fellas.. remember..remember..remember...

warming up

my son no 14, with his team mates

i think they won this game

after 2 games... he became so hungry

opponents goal keeper..and look at his jersey..

this is one of the "islander's team
 with their cheap jersey that i mention earlier

this is another keeper.. looks like a pro

they even have names on their jersey..

and they say its beautiful???

I dont understand, with the why? why is all the top political leaders (in this context male) have a very weird looking wife? i was browsing

Michelle Obama Goes Glam and Stays Stylish
at the link below:

http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/beauty/michelle-obama-goes-glam-and-stays-stylish-while-touring-england-and-ireland-2488806/

she may have all themoney in the world but she could never be at the same par with say.."Queen Latifah" the rapper.. she is obviously big size but she has her charm.. and stylish and glamourous.. i dont see this quality in Michelle.. or Samantha Cameron (Britain Prime Minister) or i'm not exagerating if i say even Queen Elizabeth dont have the charm.. they are all Boxed up, too rigid.. i dont know what is holding them back to let go the grace, their charm.... look at our Queen and Our PM's wife, the face is lack of softness.. do you have to be so rigid because you are the spouse of some leaders? the warmthness is not even there.. or that is actually how they suppose to potray themselves in Public according to the book, the top leaders how to behave book, the rightettiques?? Oh dear, they just have to rewrite the whole thing..

the most ironic thing of all, no matter how costly their dress are, from the top most designer alive, she still couldnt pulled it off.. it is such a waste of effort to come out with the design and put it on to the wrong person.. when you are ugly, no matter what you put on wont make u any better..


Kate Middleton - the Duchess of Cambridge have a little of charm, but she is also holding something back.. what is it?? unlike the Hollywood A-List that walk on the red carpet.. the Woman's of world leaders are sorry to say, monotonous.. and should i say..plastic.. ingenuine

you dont have to be outrageously over the top like KIMORA, she is overdoing everything.. these people should learn to be more relax.. they are poise and polished enough but, the most important element is missing.. warmness and charm is not there.

if i ever be one of them (which i think i would.. if i pray hard enough and put as much effort) i wont be like them.. i will be myself.. i just have to learn to be nmore getle i guess..:)

Just Do It..

You have some good ideas.. you sit on it for a day or two, saying to yourself that its too early to start working with it.. then the one or two days become one or two months.. then it dragged to one or two years... so on so forth..

i have many good ideas, i shared it with the closest person in my life, my father, my significant other.. my friends, my in laws.. but when i start to share it with people, to make myself look good (with the ideas), i slacked off..

apart from ideas, i do have so much of excellent offers throughtout my life, be it whether in business, career, education.. u name it.. but because i love to procrastinate things, i often blows my own chances..."opportunity always looks bigger going than coming" that is something i've learnt, it also knocks once.. if you blew it, you have to knocks on your head.. and say.. i am stupid!

and again.. if you want something, i really have to work for it, you dream about it, you write about it, you talk about it in a positive way, never say "you don't want it" to people when you are dying to have it just to maintain a status. you will sent the wrong message.. people dont understand double meaning statements. for instance, you want a job or you want to keep your relationship so so bad, but you told your other people that you want to leave, you hate it.. hate the mess, hate the misery... bla..blaa.. of all the credits, hardworks, achievements and endless effort you put, and at the same time there is a loser doing nothing, always whining... but he says he wants to stay.. who do you think would end up getting the good offer?

rule of life "people love us to beg, but people wont beg us... " we have to determined where we stand.. if we were at the losing end, we just have to lick their shoes.. and remember its not the end of the world because, life is also a circle.. they will have to lick our shoes another day.. (just to make us feel good about begging, that is why they created appeal letter..to make the other end feel powerful and in need, it makes them feel good)i feel good when i could help people, even though they are not in the preference list, its ok if they appeal, they need it so bad and its going to benefits me and the organization and i think they deserve what they want)in the end its win-win , i've been there done that..:)

and as for me, i wont let this time dragging habit drag me to failure. i have to be more organize so that i'll be more efficient.. and i think at the end, success and happiness will eventually come my way..amin..

stupid parents..

consider yourself stupid if

1) you let your children jumping in the car without fastening any seatbelts.. even worst you simply let your child standing in the seat next to the driver without buckling up.. rule no 1 NEVER COMPROMISE SAFETY.. IT S A MATTER OF LIVE OR DIE OR even worst, ended up living cripple.. if my son could obey the simple rule of buckling up without even reminding him. every kid should, its their parents is to be blame if they failed to infuse the early discipline of buckling up.

2) you always put unnessary pressure onto your child.. or talk into your child that they are incaple of something or even worst, say that they are handicapped whereas they looked perfectly normal.. parents prayers are holy, and God will grant what you want so, what you say is actually what you want, be careful of what you wish for.. my son is perfectly normal, he only has problem getting to the bathroom to wash up, and he had this unusual tantrums, and somebody ended up acusing that he has a problem in the head.. OHH GIVE ME A BREAK!!i just need an advice from an experienced person handling kids for 20 years and that is what i got.. so dissapointing!!!

many2 many more.. i couldnt think right now..