You have some good ideas.. you sit on it for a day or two, saying to yourself that its too early to start working with it.. then the one or two days become one or two months.. then it dragged to one or two years... so on so forth..
i have many good ideas, i shared it with the closest person in my life, my father, my significant other.. my friends, my in laws.. but when i start to share it with people, to make myself look good (with the ideas), i slacked off..
apart from ideas, i do have so much of excellent offers throughtout my life, be it whether in business, career, education.. u name it.. but because i love to procrastinate things, i often blows my own chances..."opportunity always looks bigger going than coming" that is something i've learnt, it also knocks once.. if you blew it, you have to knocks on your head.. and say.. i am stupid!
and again.. if you want something, i really have to work for it, you dream about it, you write about it, you talk about it in a positive way, never say "you don't want it" to people when you are dying to have it just to maintain a status. you will sent the wrong message.. people dont understand double meaning statements. for instance, you want a job or you want to keep your relationship so so bad, but you told your other people that you want to leave, you hate it.. hate the mess, hate the misery... bla..blaa.. of all the credits, hardworks, achievements and endless effort you put, and at the same time there is a loser doing nothing, always whining... but he says he wants to stay.. who do you think would end up getting the good offer?
rule of life "people love us to beg, but people wont beg us... " we have to determined where we stand.. if we were at the losing end, we just have to lick their shoes.. and remember its not the end of the world because, life is also a circle.. they will have to lick our shoes another day.. (just to make us feel good about begging, that is why they created appeal letter..to make the other end feel powerful and in need, it makes them feel good)i feel good when i could help people, even though they are not in the preference list, its ok if they appeal, they need it so bad and its going to benefits me and the organization and i think they deserve what they want)in the end its win-win , i've been there done that..:)
and as for me, i wont let this time dragging habit drag me to failure. i have to be more organize so that i'll be more efficient.. and i think at the end, success and happiness will eventually come my way..amin..
its all about my 1st hand experience, places i love to shop and hang out..uncensored comments and 1st impression on latest political scandals, most sensational news on tv or newspapers, goods books, good author,everything... and maybe some tips of being an ideal mom.. if not a good one (i have only one kid to begin with.. what tips is there to share really???) dedicated especially to the "hot and fabulous mamas" who are constantly on the journey like me, and oh..for some man too.. cheers!!
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The words that keep me going!!
Do not look back and grieve at the past, for it has gone, do not be troubled about the future because it has not yet come, live in the present, make it beautiful and it will be worth remembering...
"AUT VIAM INVENIAM AUT FACIAM"
if there is a will there is always a way...
"AUT VIAM INVENIAM AUT FACIAM"
if there is a will there is always a way...
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